Icebox -0: Stay Hopeful asked:


I’m thinking about sending her this message in three weeks (mid-July).

I just want to say hey. Message me or call me (I don’t know if you have my number or not so it’s 555-999-5525) whenever you’re ready, just whenever you want to talk to me.

She only has my myspace address, not my number. I’ve been talking to her online since she was out of town temporarily. For some reason she hasn’t returned any of my messages for almost two weeks and I have no clue why. I haven’t sent too many just so you know. The last one sent was four days ago. I think she probably just doesn’t want to talk to any boys right now after a breakup (NOT me and her, we were getting to know each other). We were talking at first online but she just suddenly stopped replying to my messages. We haven’t talked for two weeks. She would tell me she doesn’t want to talk to me because she’s a very blunt, straightforward person, except where matters of her heart are concerned. How long do I wait? She didn’t tell me anything, so I’m choosing to give her a little time to herself before I ask her if she’s doing ok.
Right now, I’m choosing to wait until the middle of July to send her that message just to give her a little time, and I think my message makes it to where she knows I care, and I won’t have to send anymore and I can just wait. I know better than to bug her, but I’ve learned from my experiences with another girl not to give too much space, because then she’ll think I don’t care.
Oh, oh oh oh oh. That. Doesn’t. Help. Period.

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