ms.chaos asked:


my bf of over a year and i had a nasty breakup a few days ago

we were both extremely hurt

we are extremely close and extremely connected. very much in love, very deep love.

some days ill be feeling ok and be making it through the day but then all of a sudden ill feel just horrible pangs of hurt and sadness

how do i stop wanting to cry and be sad? i feel so depressed and hurt. i dont know what to do?

should i call him and tell him i just dont know what to do?

stop feeling sorry and get your relationship back the right way

southern black chick asked:


I love her to death but recently she came to visit at my house with me and my boyfriend and his twins. She will not stop trying to control our house. I’m a christian and all but everytime I play rap/R&B in the car with the twins she losses it. See I’m 18 he’s 20 and the twins are 2. I’ve raised them since they were only 3 newborns. They are basically mine. They know they have another mother but she is crazy. They call me mom something I never told them to do. Anyway she continues to try to pressure me to breakup with him because he has tattoes and long hair. One night she randomly walked in our room and tried to get me to move out the guest room because he had his shirt off!She tried to force us to say grace. Normally we just say “1…2…3…GO!” and start eating. She continues to whine about the fact that I we are not married and share a room. When we shopped at the mall I bought some leather shoes for each of the girls and she moaned about how cruel it was. I have continued to-c-
she says “I am going to save your soul wether you like it or not” should I put her out or wait out the visit?

kmarie asked:


that I used to date last summer. We dated for about 2 1/2 months and I really did thought that I ‘loved’ him. We weren’t your normal couple because he RARELY showed any affection towards me since I was his first girlfriend [hence: he didn't know how to make the first move]. I didn’t let it bother me at first because I thought he’ll start to show more affection later on. But as our relationship progressed, he still didnt do ANYTHING. It bothered me to the point where I broke up with him. It’s been a year now and he’s still madly in love with me [truth, I'm not trying to sound conceited]. I really have no more feelings for him but we were REALLY good friends during our relationship. The breakup made us stop talking to one another completely and I never really got to properly settle our situation. I want to be civilized with him, but I don’t want to talk to him after a year of silence because I know he still has the same feelings for me. Advice?
that I used to date last summer. We dated for about 2 1/2 months and I really thought that I ‘loved’ him. We weren’t your normal couple because he RARELY showed any affection towards me since I was his first girlfriend [hence: he didn't know how to make the first move]. I didn’t let it bother me at first because I thought he’ll start to show more affection later on. But as our relationship progressed, he still didnt do ANYTHING. It bothered me to the point where I broke up with him. It’s been a year now and he’s still madly in love with me [truth, I'm not trying to sound conceited]. I really have no more feelings for him but we were REALLY good friends during our relationship. The breakup made us stop talking to one another completely and I never really got to properly settle our situation. I want to be civilized with him, but I don’t want to talk to him after a year of silence because I know he still has the same feelings for me. Advice?
that I used to date last summer. We dated for about 2 1/2 months and I really thought that I ‘loved’ him. We weren’t your normal couple because he RARELY showed any affection towards me since I was his first girlfriend [hence: he didn't know how to make the first move]. I didn’t let it bother me at first because I thought he’ll start to show more affection later on. But as our relationship progressed, he still didnt do ANYTHING. It bothered me to the point where I broke up with him. It’s been a year now and he’s still madly in love with me [truth, I'm not trying to sound conceited]. I really have no more feelings for him but we were REALLY good friends during our relationship. The breakup made us stop talking to one another completely and I never really got to properly settle our situation. I want to be civilized with him, but I don’t want to talk to him after a year of silence because I know he still has the same feelings for me. Advice?

get your relationship back on track

slynn8806 asked:


My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years, we live together now and i love him more than anything. Like anyone we get into arguments and get mad at each other. Naturally i vent to my friends then go talk to him. Problem is now is that my friends are starting to see only the negative in him. Which isn’t fair cause i also tell them about all the great times we have. It doesn’t matter what i say they seem to always have it out for him. How can i get them to stop trying to convince me to breakup with him everytime we get in an argument.

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