Henry asked:
I am 20 years old, and am currently going out with a 21 soon to be 22 year old girl. I currently transferred from a community college in PA to a college in North Carolina to be closer to her. We went a full year, last year, as a long-distance couple. We decided to live together during the summer, and after a fairly rough summer, I am now in North Carolina. Throughout our relationship, I have always found it hard to be completely comfortable, and this is my first serious relationship. I now feel rather stuck being in NC but having feelings that I do not think I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. I miss my freedom, my friends, my family, and just doing whatever I want to when I want to. She, to me, is fairly high maintenance, and fairly controlling. I know deep down she is a great person with a great heart, but I feel like I am just wasting our time by staying together. Should I stop delaying the breakup and grow some balls, or should i let it ride out?
Is it bad to deep down feel that a big piece of you would be missing if you did dump her? I realize that I feel like that now though, and would probably get over it in time.
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I am 20 years old, and am currently going out with a 21 soon to be 22 year old girl. I currently transferred from a community college in PA to a college in North Carolina to be closer to her. We went a full year, last year, as a long-distance couple. We decided to live together during the summer, and after a fairly rough summer, I am now in North Carolina. Throughout our relationship, I have always found it hard to be completely comfortable, and this is my first serious relationship. I now feel rather stuck being in NC but having feelings that I do not think I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. I miss my freedom, my friends, my family, and just doing whatever I want to when I want to. She, to me, is fairly high maintenance, and fairly controlling. I know deep down she is a great person with a great heart, but I feel like I am just wasting our time by staying together. Should I stop delaying the breakup and grow some balls, or should i let it ride out?
Is it bad to deep down feel that a big piece of you would be missing if you did dump her? I realize that I feel like that now though, and would probably get over it in time.
Be happy again! click here to learn how to get your ex back in your life
