omgitsrachel asked:


My first love and I broke up in February over a very complicated situation. He lives in Arizona, and I live in Kansas. He was going to transfer to the college I’m at but ended up not being able to afford it, so we broke up but still kept in contact.
It’s been about ten months since the breakup. I stopped talking to him in April, but then I starting talking to him again towards the beginning of August.
We’re still not “friends,” or what you would call good friends, but we are on good terms with one another.
The thing is, this morning, he messaged me over Facebook, and we were talking about Christmas with out families. He said he wasn’t looking forward to spending time with his because there’s a lot of family drama going on.
I won’t go into details because I said I wouldn’t, but why does HIS family problem bother ME so much if we’re not even dating anymore?

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king asked:


I stopped talkin to this girl about 4 mos ago. We were in a year and half relationship with her, but she felt there was no more energy or excitement in the relation, so she ended it. I tried to fix it after a few weeks into the breakup, but stopped when she started talkin to another guy. I haven’t talked to her in about 2 mos, then recently, a few weeks ago, she calls one of my good friends to see if she could baby sit his kid. She has never called this guy ever and she knows he’s my friend!! Then, last week, she went out with one of her girlfriends, and told her that she regreted sleeping with me. When her firend asked why, she didn’t give an answer. WHATS GOIN ON???? should I have my friend setup somethin??

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king asked:


I stopped talkin to this girl about 4 mos ago. We were in a year and half relationship with her, but she felt there was no more energy or excitement in the relation, so she ended it. I tried to fix it after a few weeks into the breakup, but stopped when she started talkin to another guy. I haven’t talked to her in about 2 mos, then recently, a few weeks ago, she calls one of my good friends to see if she could baby sit his kid. She has never called this guy ever and she knows he’s my friend!! Then, last week, she went out with one of her girlfriends, and told her that she regreted sleeping with me. When her firend asked why, she didn’t give an answer. WHATS GOIN ON????

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