Your Best Kept Secret asked:


I’m always the girl who gets her heart broken. I hate being this way. I’ll cry myself to sleep over a boy. Some people act like breakups don’t even phase them. Me and my boyfriend of 7 months just broke up and all I can do is cry. Does anyone know how I can stop being such a breakup baby?
Boys don’t really like me so I can’t just go around picking up new guys.
Thanks for your concern zaza but I’m fine the way I am. I’m not addicted and I’m quite healthy and smart.
KirBirty906, you are lame. Go shoot yourself. I have depression and yes I do wish to die but I don’t have the strength to kill myself.
Haha that’s dandy RAGE MORE!! but ice cream really isn’t my thing. I prefer pizza =D

stop feeling sorry and get your relationship back the right way

Andy L asked:


My first gf and I broke up ~7 months ago. Since then, I’ve dated twice, but I’ve always felt like there is no other girl that compares to my first gf.

I’m pretty sure that I’m (mostly) over the breakup with my first gf. We still talk occasionally and keep our relationship on an acquaintence basis. But, I’m just not sure whether I will ever be able to forget my first gf, and stop comparing her to other people.

Do you think it’s normal or healthy to be comparing like this? Sometimes, I feel like I’m sort of biased because I have this relationship experience in my past that I keep referring back to.

Is this a problem? What could I do to make myself give the girls I date a fair chance?

stop feeling sorry and get your relationship back the right way