Posted on 25 October 2009.
brinene asked: my friend is really ugly.and i dont hang out with ugly people… she recently went through a breakup, and stopped trying. and now that she is so unnatractive i cant be her friend anymore, how do i tell her i cant be friends with her anymore?
we were making fun of a girl who was talking about how ugly her sister is.
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Posted on 24 October 2009. Tags: Love, Rap, Twins

southern black chick asked:
I love her to death but recently she came to visit at my house with me and my boyfriend and his twins. She will not stop trying to control our house. I’m a christian and all but everytime I play rap/R&B in the car with the twins she losses it. See I’m 18 he’s 20 and the twins are 2. I’ve raised them since they were only 3 newborns. They are basically mine. They know they have another mother but she is crazy. They call me mom something I never told them to do. Anyway she continues to try to pressure me to breakup with him because he has tattoes and long hair. One night she randomly walked in our room and tried to get me to move out the guest room because he had his shirt off!She tried to force us to say grace. Normally we just say “1…2…3…GO!” and start eating. She continues to whine about the fact that I we are not married and share a room. When we shopped at the mall I bought some leather shoes for each of the girls and she moaned about how cruel it was. I have continued to-c-
she says “I am going to save your soul wether you like it or not” should I put her out or wait out the visit?
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Posted on 21 October 2009. Tags: Girlfriend, Great Heart, High Maintenance

Henry asked: I am 20 years old, and am currently going out with a 21 soon to be 22 year old girl. I currently transferred from a community college in PA to a college in North Carolina to be closer to her. We went a full year, last year, as a long-distance couple. We decided to live together during the summer, and after a fairly rough summer, I am now in North Carolina. Throughout our relationship, I have always found it hard to be completely comfortable, and this is my first serious relationship. I now feel rather stuck being in NC but having feelings that I do not think I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. I miss my freedom, my friends, my family, and just doing whatever I want to when I want to. She, to me, is fairly high maintenance, and fairly controlling. I know deep down she is a great person with a great heart, but I feel like I am just wasting our time by staying together. Should I stop delaying the breakup and grow some balls, or should i let it ride out?
Is it bad to deep down feel that a big piece of you would be missing if you did dump her? I realize that I feel like that now though, and would probably get over it in time.
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Posted on 20 October 2009. Tags: 7 Months, Breakups, People
Your Best Kept Secret asked: I’m always the girl who gets her heart broken. I hate being this way. I’ll cry myself to sleep over a boy. Some people act like breakups don’t even phase them. Me and my boyfriend of 7 months just broke up and all I can do is cry. Does anyone know how I can stop being such a breakup baby?
Boys don’t really like me so I can’t just go around picking up new guys.
Thanks for your concern zaza but I’m fine the way I am. I’m not addicted and I’m quite healthy and smart.
KirBirty906, you are lame. Go shoot yourself. I have depression and yes I do wish to die but I don’t have the strength to kill myself.
Haha that’s dandy RAGE MORE!! but ice cream really isn’t my thing. I prefer pizza =D
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Posted on 15 October 2009. Tags: Hell, Relationship, Virgin

Curious asked: I’ve been on and off with the same guy for three years and we’ve seriously been to hell and back with all the drama in his life, my life and our relationship. After a bad 4th breakup we stopped talking but I missed him and sometime in November we started talking again. He wanted to get back together but I didn’t want to rush things I told him to slow down and wait a while and see where things go.After three years of procrasinating, i finally gave in and had sex with him. We we’re “officially” together but I loved him trusted him, and thought it was right. I was a virgin and he was not. HE DID EVERYTHING ABSOLUTELY WRONG but i faked it so that I didn’t hurt his feelings. I told him I was scared to do anything with him because I thought he wasn’t going to want me afterwards but he said “Nah. Why would I wait three years just to do that to you?” and I believed him.Now, he isn’t talking to me and he “supposedly” didn’t want a relationship with me. WTF?
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Posted on 12 October 2009. Tags: Best Friend, Crush
Heyyy Baby asked: I like this guy, but I know he’s not into me. He’s into my best friend, and she knows this. But the thing is, I’ve fallen hard for this guy. I even cried over him when my best friend told me he asked her out. She said no because she had just gotten out of a bad breakup, but now i think she wants to and the only thing that’s stopping her is me. What should I do?
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Posted on 12 October 2009. Tags: 3 Years, Career, Temper

pallavi asked: i am working in a MNC in india and my boyfriend is doing is higher studies in UK..we love each other a lot and were together for 3 years now…but for the past few weeks he started suspecting me a lot and started linking me with guys because he feels that i am going around with someone in my city…he is putting alligations on me and he feels i dont love him nemre now…and i m very happy with some new guy here in india…i tried a lot to make him understand that i have noone in my life and he is the only one…but he never understood saying that he doesnt trust me anymore and that he has got some kind of information about me….everytime i try 2 make him understand..he loses his temper and he doesnt want to talk to me at all..he is more into drinking and smoking nowadays which he never used to do before and he is spoiling his career also thinking about all these and blaming me for ditching him which i have not done…and now few days back..he said he wants a breakup and i could not stop him from ths breakup even after all my efforts….i am very upset coz i love him a lot and really cant live witout him…and at the same i know he also loves me but he is hurting both of us due to some misunderstandings and his misconceptions….i dont know wat to do…please help me….
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Posted on 11 October 2009. Tags: Cute Emails, Emotion, Painful Breakup
mixedcreole asked:
I dated a guy off an on for 3.5 years,we had a sudden and painful breakup. I cant stop thinking about him,I dream about him…I just flat out love and miss him.He made it clear that this is it and its no way we could be again.After talking everydayfor so many years,we no longer speak or send cute emails to eachother…It all just ended and as I cried in his face he didnt show an emotion,nor seemed hurt by this.How could this be? How long will it take for the pain to go away?
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Posted on 07 October 2009. Tags: Disrespect, Girlfriend, Relationship
chopshop15 asked: The thing is that I being in this relationship for about a year and 8 months. For the last past months my girlfriend has been cheating on me and she said she was going to try to stop doing this. I know I’m kind of crazy for staying in this relationship but I do love this women and I want her to be my wife one day, but I’m not going to continue to be faithful to her if she is not going to do the same. If I start cheating on her I know that the relationship is going to end there and we are going to have this big breakup. So I just need some helpful advice because right now I’m really hurt and I know I don’t deserve this type of disrespect and unfaithfullness.
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