Ranbaxy asked:


I’m a student at a university in Ohio. I use to be active in the LGBT groups on campus and I was very involved. After a breakup I stopped going to the groups in order to avoid my ex (just until I got my sanity back). Since I’ve returned, the group is now headed by radical gay peoples. I feel like the group is more about making a statement now rather than demonstrating understanding and tolerance. I just want to know what some of you think about this kind of situation. Should it matter how you protest? Or is the point just to be active and to be seen?

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goldengirl asked:


I broke up with with my boyfriend a week ago and yet I feel like im going in circles. He says he wants to be friends but yet he calls me everyday asking what im doing. I’m like we can be friends the day after our breakup he stopped by but was so distant from me. Then a couple a days ago when we were giving back our stuff I noticed he didn’t give me back none of my underwear or delete my pictures of his computer. He also was trying to have sex with me that same day. He talking about “we’re friends” but what kind of friends have sex. I said we can take it slow and he said “we’ll see” then yesterday he was talking about how he wanted some “Knowledge” which I knew he was referring to me. Now he’s acting his usual self and talking to me like we use to when we were a couple. After I broke up with him I felt like I mad a mistake and tried to apologize but he had no sympathy but now I don’t care if we ever get together I could just use him for sex. Anyone been in this type of situation?

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ms.chaos asked:


my bf of over a year and i had a nasty breakup a few days ago

we were both extremely hurt

we are extremely close and extremely connected. very much in love, very deep love.

some days ill be feeling ok and be making it through the day but then all of a sudden ill feel just horrible pangs of hurt and sadness

how do i stop wanting to cry and be sad? i feel so depressed and hurt. i dont know what to do?

should i call him and tell him i just dont know what to do?

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nillanat asked:


I got really depressed because my boyfriend who I adored broke up with me for someone else, and my ex and I became really close friends, then I felt like I wanted him…And it hurt me to know I couldn’t lean over and hug him if I wanted to because he loved someone else, he cared for another girl instead of me. I used to cut a lot last year, but I quit and told myself that I wasn’t gonna do it – Well, I did it. I’ve been doing it all this week and I’ve decided that I really need to stop. After the breakup – Before i knew he got a new girlfriend, I was getting help dealing with it from a friend. A much older, and wiser friend. She helped me by telling me to start loving myself before I love another. She gave me homework to say “I like me” and look into the mirror while doing it, 10 times in a row, 3 times a day. She also told me to say “I am a fun, beautfil, confident girl making healthy relationships now!” as another homework assignment to say to myself (in the mirror) 1 time per day. I was doing great until I got so close to my ex…Now is my best guy-friend. We got to know eachother A LOT after he broke up with me. I just stopped caring I guess, and I just said anything I felt. I guess he began to trust me and told me very personal things about himself – I did the same. This made me feel worse knowing I wasn’t with him but I loved him so much. Which is why I cut again. I am trying to get back ontrack with loving myself, but if I continue to hate myself and therefore cut, I will get absolutely NO WHERE. And I know that.
What do you suggest I do.
And I can’t cut off all relations from him, because we go to school together and our seats are permanantly next to eachother, so there will be communication to him no matter what. And, I adore him deeply…So I don’t think it’s possible at all.
Thank you so much for whatever you can help with.

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April N asked:


I’ve been with my boyfriend for about seven months, but we were close friends for about a year before that. He was with his ex girlfriend for seven years and her family became his family as in most relationships. Their breakup was really bad and she hated him for a minute but then her brother had a heart attack and they traveled up to where he lives together to help him and her sister out while he recovered. I was supportive of that, although I was extremely sad and a little angry. Then her mother got ill and he went again to be supportive to his ex and family. I was destroyed. I think that he should show his support differently now that were together. Not staying for four days with your ex. His ex’s mother just passed four hours ago and he wants to go be supportive for her again. I am all in favor of him going to the service because that was someone important to him, but not for four or five days with your ex. Why doesn’t she have her own man there each of these times? He says thats his family, but aren’t I supposed to be his family now? Where does she stop and I begin? Sorry for the length. Please give your opinion. Thanks.

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princess.rose asked:


my ex broke up with me for family problems, promised he’d get back together when its all over, calls me later that night & tells me he loves me and misses me. I keep calling him everyday & he just couldn’t talk. Yesterday he called & told me i never called & that i dont care anymore but that he still loves me. Today he calls & he’s being a HUGE jerk. I would tell him im miserable and he tells me to shut up and that he doesnt care. He keeps telling me to shut up & i kept saying why. Nd he told me he was gonna punch me tomorrow & that i should be scared. & he tells me a whole bunch of girls like him becuase he’s just SOOOOO sexy. & he tells me that he doesnt care about me and two seconds later says “kidding”. & i tell him he’s being an ass and he says “fuck you” over and over. He keeps calling me liar and loser but then says he still loves me & only wants me & that i should stop stressing about the breakup because its only temporary, but its his fault im stressed because he keeps saying “imma call my other girlfriend” & “should i fuck this girl?” & i hung up because he told me “ur so fucking slow, loser”

i now he’s being emotionally abusive but he wasnt like this before & i just want things to be like they were before. I dont know what to do!

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omgitsrachel asked:


My first love and I broke up in February over a very complicated situation. He lives in Arizona, and I live in Kansas. He was going to transfer to the college I’m at but ended up not being able to afford it, so we broke up but still kept in contact.
It’s been about ten months since the breakup. I stopped talking to him in April, but then I starting talking to him again towards the beginning of August.
We’re still not “friends,” or what you would call good friends, but we are on good terms with one another.
The thing is, this morning, he messaged me over Facebook, and we were talking about Christmas with out families. He said he wasn’t looking forward to spending time with his because there’s a lot of family drama going on.
I won’t go into details because I said I wouldn’t, but why does HIS family problem bother ME so much if we’re not even dating anymore?

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king asked:


I stopped talkin to this girl about 4 mos ago. We were in a year and half relationship with her, but she felt there was no more energy or excitement in the relation, so she ended it. I tried to fix it after a few weeks into the breakup, but stopped when she started talkin to another guy. I haven’t talked to her in about 2 mos, then recently, a few weeks ago, she calls one of my good friends to see if she could baby sit his kid. She has never called this guy ever and she knows he’s my friend!! Then, last week, she went out with one of her girlfriends, and told her that she regreted sleeping with me. When her firend asked why, she didn’t give an answer. WHATS GOIN ON???? should I have my friend setup somethin??

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Claire asked:


Im 15, and if you are going to judge me please do not respond. My ex boyfriend who i was with for 5 months broke up with me about 4 months ago for my best friend. I’ve been trying to deny that i still like him but i cant. I just didn’t know if there are any solutions so i can just let go, and stop obsessing over what i could’ve done wrong. This was like my first serious breakup and i just don’t know how to get over it. If you respond thanks. :]

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Thelma15 asked:


I just ended a long relationship (7 yrs) about a month ago. I did it for the right reasons, but my heat is broken nonetheless. I’m torn between anger at the things he did to me toward the end of the relationship, and missing him like crazy. I don’t want to get back together, but I don’t want to lose him for good; if possible I’d like us to still be friends. Any tips on how to move on, whether we can be friends, how to handle the situation? This is my first long term relationship, and I’m having trouble dealing with the breakup. Help please… I can’t stop crying!

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