Sweetie1204 asked:


I was engaged to my high school sweetheart,circumstances made us breakup a long time ago.Now I am almost 21 and we got back in touch about a year ago,we have been on again and off again and its gotten to the point where I just want to walk away from him for good but its so hard. Its like how can I stop loving this person? Anyone ever had a similar experience. The reason I am leaving him for good is because he wont stop destructive behavior(drinking,drugs)

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omgitsrachel asked:


My first love ended about ten months ago. We were in a long-distance relationship. I am a freshman in college, and he in a junior. He was going to transfer to the college I am at in August, but he broke up with me in February after finding out he couldn’t afford it. He’s in Arizona, and I’m in Kansas. I was crushed and heartbroken, and I was struggling with depression during that time as well. He was my first love, and I feel like our relationship is a should-have, could-have, would-have type of situation.
It took my a very long time to get over him, and sometimes, it still kind of hurts.
Now I’m dating a new guy, Scott, who goes to my college. He’s so sweet, and I love him dearly.
The thing is, he tells me he loves me all the time, and the other night we were snuggling and flirting in my bed, and he said, “Rachel Jean Keith (my full name), I want to spend the rest of my life with you.”
Patrick, my first love, said that to me too, and we wound up breaking up.
Because of that, his face came to my mind immediately.
Has that ever happened to you?
How can I stop thinking about the breakup and worrying every time Scott says something like that?

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Alli asked:


I have a boyfriend of almost two months, short time i know. anyways he has a friend who i think i may like, evenw a bf. call A the guy i like and B my bf. A is nice, hot super funny, outgoing, and i see him everyday. B likes me, is fun to be with, and is cute and sweet. I am closer with my bf but see A daily and can’t stop thinking about him and thinking when im with A about how when me and bf breakup if i could go out wit A. What should I do?

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amber asked:


ok so my boyfriend hasnt talked 2 me in a couple weeks, he only calls to ask my moms 4 cigs, his sister says he hangs out with his exes, he has got me in trouble with the cops, and all he ever wants to do is… well u no. we
dont ever breakup, we just stop talking for a while until we run into each other.

but other times hes the sweetest guy and im STUCK on this kid. & hes CUTEE.

please give long, good advice.
<3 Amber.
btw my mom has never ever got them for him he only met my mom once and i dont no y he asks lol

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Singing Diva asked:


So me and my Ex boyfriend dated for 2 months. i broke up with him twice because… well i wasnt ready to date yet. And see the first breakup we only dated a week. Then we were good. and i broke up w/ him like 3 months ago. I cant stop thinking of him. Even though he is a jerk! and well see he is a football guy so like he is self centered around ppl but when it is me and him alone he is good. But he is very clingy around me, and most of the time insecure about the guys i talk to / hangout with. but he can be a good guy .. deep down. he was my best friend… Anyways after the breakup i cant stop thinking bout him! and now i was going to tell him im crazy about him and wanna try again, but now he is going out w/ one of my best friends!!! How do i get over this jerk, move on, and get him jealous!?! i wanna make him be like wow i want her back. I wanna get even since he is goin out w/ my bffl. Help please!!!!
thanks

xxx
HEY! i didnt break up w/ him for the hell of it ok! i wasnt sure of my feelings, plus he wanted a break to! so it isnt just my fault! we were both into taking a break. and then we got back together but he was being to clingy and im 15!! and i wasnt sure of my feelings! ok ppl so im not a crappy person! and now im sure of how i feel, and he just dated my Fuckin best friend! What the hell am i suppose to act like!? every things ok when its not!?!?!

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Bullet For My Valentine asked:


I was going out with a girl few months..then she jes stopped toking to me..didnt say she wanted a breakup, jes stopped talking…so my friend said he’l hook me up with another gal hu will b perfect 4 me..n i got to know this other girl..anyway, now the first gal has come bak 2 me..what do i do????? both of them r good girls..i dun wana hurt any1’s feelings

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asm asked:


I am 28 and about 8 years ago had a problem where I went about 3 months without having a period. Then I had one everyday for about 2 1/2 years, very heavy. I had to get a blood transfusion because of it (from what I can gather, was close to dying because of the lose of blood). I went to 2-3 doctors (one family doctor and 2 ob/gyns) and none of them knew what was wrong with me. I was then put on birth control for about 2 years and everything was fine when I stopped taking it.

About 4 months ago, my fiancee broke up with me completely unexpectedly. To that point I was doing fine and my periods were “dependable”. I had started back on the pill. I took it for only a month and stopped. After the breakup I went about 2 1/2 months with out a period, then last month had a light one and this month, I’ve had it for about 3 weeks. Some days it is light and others heavy. Didin’t know if anyone would have any suggestions on why this would be happening again. Could it all be stress?

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Dämon asked:


I guess he stopped loving me and what not.
I hurt from this and I’ve been trying my hardest to not fall into a depression, but I think I’m beginning to. I need people who got over their breakups to give me advice on how did they make it.
Thank you in advance.

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Dh asked:


my bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I know that it takes times to heal, but i’ve never felt that bad even i had some past relationships before.

he’s just perfect for me and i love him a wholelot. I’ve been dreaming of him at least 20 nights in this 3 weeks after the breakup, how can i stop dreaming about him?

everyday i woke up with tons of images of our happy moments in my head, how can i get over these memories and forget about them? i try to distract myself by goign out with friends, watching movies, clubbing, etc, but just dont work.

we’ve traveld alot, we have very beautiful memories, how to get over them? how can i forget he was kissing me when we were under the stars in the greek isle??? how?????

anyone has the same feelings and how to feel better?????

:’(

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Jones asked:


I’m 23. I’ve recently been out of 2 relationships…one being my first, for about 7 months (she broke up with me), and another for only 1 month (I broke up with her because of distance and it being too soon for me to move on). Both breakups hurt in their own respect…the first one, she moved on very quickly and broke my heart (continues to do so, as well), and the second, I broke my friend’s heart, which I feel guilty about.
Before that, I’d been dating for around a year, experiencing half a dozen first dates that went well but no follow-ups…another half a dozen girls who liked me a lot but wanted to be friends (some I still hang out with), a couple awkward situations (one girl from overseas who left for home 2 weeks later), and generally a lot of heartbreak.
I really want to move on with my life, but I’m finding that I think about girls far too much. From wanting to get back together with my ex, to being jealous of other guys she so much as shows affection towards, to my reasons for breaking up with another girl…
…to wondering what kind of person I am, having randomly hooked up twice, now (something I promised myself to never, ever do)…

Relationship woes and girls in general, I find myself thinking about far too much. It is very likely to do with my own insecurity, made only worse by my own heartbreak in my first/recent relationships. I still feel vulnerable, even, and I don’t want to end up being used by someone who shows me any sort of affection.

But it’s all I think about lately. Especially these past few weeks! It occupies my mind at work, constantly. I can’t be distracted by a movie or a book, no matter how hard I try, and I find myself getting caught up in my thoughts very frequently to the point where I’ll stop talking with friends and most often be put in this sort of anti-social mood where I don’t want to do anything except mope, or talk about my past relationship problems like I’m fishing for pity.
Which is no way to be, at all!
Help me regain my personality and my sanity! I don’t want to think about this stuff anymore!
bluey, thanks for the long answer, actually. The more the better, at this point. It’s really driving me up a wall.

Even sort of minor stuff hurts me, still. I watched my ex (of 3-4 months) make out with another guy last night, meaninglessly and not even very heavily, and I didn’t sleep a wink. This sort of feeling happens pretty frequently, where I’ll lose sleep, or overthink things to the point where I’ll become mentally exhausted.

I’m not particularly religious, but I have prayed some for peace of mind. It hasn’t really helped much, unfortunately.

My favourite pastime is writing, but, at this rate, I find myself unable to write anything except stuff like this. Requests for help. Explanations of my lack of luck in love, or not being able to break free of my thoughts about it.
Seriously, most frequently lately, nothing can hold my attention. I went to see a movie with friends yesterday and left the theatre 4 times because I couldn’t even sit still.

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