Celcia R asked:


my bf thinks we have sex too much. But the truth is that I like having sex. I get enjoyment!!!WHos doesn’t. I just dont get it for my last birthday he gave me lingerie and tons of sex toys, now he wants to stop….I just dont get him. We’ve been together for not that long, so it wont break my heart if we breakup. should i dump him and go find anothre guy who enjoys sex as much as I do or keep him. Also I got asked by a pornographic photographer to model for him, my bf is mad at me for that too!!!!!!!!!

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Toni asked:


After the first time we broke up I was a little down but did ok. The second time we were together I fell even deeper in love than the first time. I went into a mild depression after the second breakup. So that I would not get tempted to call and stuff I erased all his information, like phone numbers and stuff. I then threw myself into work to deal with it. Now he wants to start talking again saying that despite who he has dated he can’t stop thinking of me. To be honest he is the one I have measured everyone against. I want to try again but am afraid to get hurt again. What should I do?

princess.rose asked:


my ex broke up with me for family problems, promised he’d get back together when its all over, calls me later that night & tells me he loves me and misses me. I keep calling him everyday & he just couldn’t talk. Yesterday he called & told me i never called & that i dont care anymore but that he still loves me. Today he calls & he’s being a HUGE jerk. I would tell him im miserable and he tells me to shut up and that he doesnt care. He keeps telling me to shut up & i kept saying why. Nd he told me he was gonna punch me tomorrow & that i should be scared. & he tells me a whole bunch of girls like him becuase he’s just SOOOOO sexy. & he tells me that he doesnt care about me and two seconds later says “kidding”. & i tell him he’s being an *** and he says “**** you” over and over. He keeps calling me liar and loser but then says he still loves me & only wants me & that i should stop stressing about the breakup because its only temporary, but its his fault im stressed because he keeps saying “imma call my other girlfriend” & “should i **** this girl?” & i hung up because he told me “ur so ******* slow, loser”

i now he’s being emotionally abusive but he wasnt like this before & i just want things to be like they were before. I dont know what to do!

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L asked:


Ok, so here’s the story. The beginning of this year, my friend and I went on a trip together. We went during the weekend after my birthday so we were going to be celebrating. Well, my friend had just gotten out of a long relationship and was still pretty depressed about the whole situation. However, she is the one who suggested the trip. Ultimately, the trip turned out to be a disaster and I will discuss the reasons.
1. First, I tried to be as accommodating as I could and keep our options open with regards to what we would do while away. While I had been to this particular vacation spot before, she hadn’t. So I gave her some suggestions of what we could do, but she couldn’t seem to make up her mind. She would then tell me to pick a place…and once I would…she would end up not enjoying the experience at all. She wouldn’t say so…but I could tell by her behavior.
2. She just go out of a bad breakup and was still in mourning over the loss. So I can understand her being a little down and out. She often appeared to be huffing and puffing and very agitated while on the trip. I would ask her if she was ok…and if she wanted to just go back to the hotel…she would always assure me that she was fine and that she needed to just get out and do something to cheer her up. However, it seemed that no matter what we did…she would find something about it that she did not like.

3. It became very frusterating for me to be able to read her mind and tell if she was happy or not because her mood went up and down the whole time we were there…again…I expected this in a way because of her breakup…but she kept assuring me that she was ok and that there was nothing I could do and that she just wanted to enjoy herself.
4. I overheard her one night on her phone at the hotel whispering to a friend about me. I am not sure what was said…but I could tell she was talking about me. So I again asked her was she ok and if I had done anything to offend her…she said no and that everything was fine. But once again…I would find her huffing and puffing and acting really strange.
So…the trip eventually came to an end and we went back home. 2 weeks later…I find out from another friend of mine…that she said she hated the trip and that I was on the phone the whole time with my boyfriend and was being rude and inconsiderate. Now mind you…she never said any of this to me while we were on trip.
Just to give you some information….I was on the phone with my bf…but I didn’t think that I was on the phone too much. And there were times when I was on the phone in frusteration because she acted as if she didn’t want to do anything…and on top of that…didn’t want to talk about anything or being consoled when I tried to. And I certaintly didn’t know that my phone calls were bothering her. If I would have…I would have easily stopped it. I end up confronting her about the situation and asked why she didn’t let me know how she really felt. She said that it wasn’t a big deal and that it would have made me none the wiser. But it obviously was a big deal if she went so far as to tell another friend of mine but not me….who is the culprit of her accusations. I told her that I expect a friend to tell me if I am doing something to offend them…especially if we are on a trip together and she is not enjoying herself. But I didn’t appreciate her going behind my back and telling someone else. I apologized to her about my phone usage…even though I didn’t know it was a problem at the time. She never apologized for going behind my back…and we never really talked again to this day. I have tried to initiate conversation and even internet communication but all she does is blow it off and says that she hopes I’m doing well.
So…what should I do? Should I just leave her alone and chalk it up as a loss? I actually considered her a true friend and can’t imagine losing a friendship over something so petty. We had known eachother for about 3 years…and for it all to just end over a simple misunderstanding really boggles me. I have come to the conclusion that she probably didn’t value our frienship the way I did. And she comes off as being pretty unapologetic or unforgiving. Can some voice of reason help me see this situation for what it is and let me know what I need to do?
We are both in our late 20’s early 30’s.

Thanks

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Ugh! asked:


Okay so i have been having this same problem for the longest time and I NEED answers lol. Okay so I am 18 years old, a senior in hs, and my freshman year this new guy came to my school (my ex) and we dated for a few months, we became really close really fast, I feel like he was actually my first love. Then we had a pretty bad breakup and stopped talking. After that we both moved on. He currently is dating a girl hes been dating for like the past 7 months or so and I’m still dating the guy that I starting dating a few months after me and my ex broke up. Well this year is the first year since then that i had a class with him and so we started talking. Which of course made me miss him more. I thought I loved my current boyfriend but I feel bad because I’m always thinking of my ex. I always wondered if me and my ex could have anything due to the fact that we both matured since freshman year. During the class he like picks on me but like the flirting kind and I try to talk to him but sometimes it seems like im annoying him. Also something that caught me off guard was that during the class i have with him, this girl came up and asked me how long me and him dated for and i said like 3 months and he interrupts and says “no it’s been 4 1/2″ I texted him later that day and asked him if it was really 4 1/2 and he said yeah it was. why would he remember that if he has completely moved on from me? I really wish i had another chance with him but he has a girlfriend and i cant see myself with my current boyfriend.
UGH!! IM SOOOO CONFUSED
Oh and i need to mention that my parents love my current boyfriend and they absolutely hate my ex because of how he treated me. Another reason why im confused, Im still obsessed with him when he didnt even treat me very good, he treated me amazingly in school and in public but in private we always fought and cry and yeah

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Florida Girl asked:


NIPPLE!!!!!

Me and my ex are back together
And when we were having sex we slept together bare naked ( it felt great but im feeling weird) and i woke up / my bf sucking and kissing my right nipple!!!

I told him and he started necking me and having oral sex!!!

Should i tell him 2 stop or is it ok?????

Breakup???????? 10 POINTS!!!!!!

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Icebox -0: Stay Hopeful asked:


I’m thinking about sending her this message in three weeks (mid-July).

I just want to say hey. Message me or call me (I don’t know if you have my number or not so it’s 555-999-5525) whenever you’re ready, just whenever you want to talk to me.

She only has my myspace address, not my number. I’ve been talking to her online since she was out of town temporarily. For some reason she hasn’t returned any of my messages for almost two weeks and I have no clue why. I haven’t sent too many just so you know. The last one sent was four days ago. I think she probably just doesn’t want to talk to any boys right now after a breakup (NOT me and her, we were getting to know each other). We were talking at first online but she just suddenly stopped replying to my messages. We haven’t talked for two weeks. She would tell me she doesn’t want to talk to me because she’s a very blunt, straightforward person, except where matters of her heart are concerned. How long do I wait? She didn’t tell me anything, so I’m choosing to give her a little time to herself before I ask her if she’s doing ok.
Right now, I’m choosing to wait until the middle of July to send her that message just to give her a little time, and I think my message makes it to where she knows I care, and I won’t have to send anymore and I can just wait. I know better than to bug her, but I’ve learned from my experiences with another girl not to give too much space, because then she’ll think I don’t care. I’m also thinking about sending her some jokes I found in an attempt to make her laugh.

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xsdgfx564 asked:


When you have those kind of friends that stop talking to you when they get a boyfriend or girlfriend but when they are having problems or breakup they call you out of the blue?

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Icebox -0: Stay Hopeful asked:


I’m thinking about sending her this message in three weeks (mid-July).

I just want to say hey. Message me or call me (I don’t know if you have my number or not so it’s 555-999-5525) whenever you’re ready, just whenever you want to talk to me.

She only has my myspace address, not my number. I’ve been talking to her online since she was out of town temporarily. For some reason she hasn’t returned any of my messages for almost two weeks and I have no clue why. I haven’t sent too many just so you know. The last one sent was four days ago. I think she probably just doesn’t want to talk to any boys right now after a breakup (NOT me and her, we were getting to know each other). We were talking at first online but she just suddenly stopped replying to my messages. We haven’t talked for two weeks. She would tell me she doesn’t want to talk to me because she’s a very blunt, straightforward person, except where matters of her heart are concerned. How long do I wait? She didn’t tell me anything, so I’m choosing to give her a little time to herself before I ask her if she’s doing ok.
Right now, I’m choosing to wait until the middle of July to send her that message just to give her a little time, and I think my message makes it to where she knows I care, and I won’t have to send anymore and I can just wait. I know better than to bug her, but I’ve learned from my experiences with another girl not to give too much space, because then she’ll think I don’t care.
Oh, oh oh oh oh. That. Doesn’t. Help. Period.

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