what is it that you saw in your current boyfriend that attracted you to him. if it still draws you to him than stay with him. if it don’t then tell him that you want to be friends who knows maybe that is what your ex is waiting for is for you to be single.

u just want excitement…

Well nether of you are married. All is fair in love and war! I think you don’t love your current boyfriend but you don’t necessarily need your first one either. You said it your confused don’t tie yourself to just one right away. Look around live a little before settling with someone just because they are there. I would tell him how you feel, he might feel the same way or he may not. Good Luck!

Well if you’re so sure you can’t see yourself with your current boyfriend then don’t be with him. You are just going to hurt him and I don’t think he deserves it. Three years is a long time to be with someone if you weren’t happy then you should have ended things with him a long time ago. Be careful with this. Plus you don’t know if your ex still feels the same. Why don’t you tell your boyfriend you need some time to think about what you want. Don’t make a mistake. Why do you want a bad ex boyfriend anyway if you have an amazing boyfriend. Think about it.