Being friends with her isnt fair on you and is exactly what she wants. She doesnt want to be in a relationship with you right now but still wants to see you because you to have spent so much time together. If you comply with this desire you will feel worse and ruin your chances of getting back together. After moving if you keep to yourself and dont talk to her then you will most likely begin drawing her back to you. If she doesnt contact you before your month break follow the system.

good advice man thx

Sux2bu06 – Sorry for the wait! I had to think about this one. Well I’m afraid your question goes beyond the scope of my experience considering I am only 18 so you might want to consult Tdub on the specifics. Luckily though, what I have notice, are a few commonalities that define the end of relationships no matter the circumstances. All break ups are products of problems that have built up over time or instantaneous deal breaker issues…

…some where in along the lines your relationship built up enough negatives to cause a split. So if you disregard the son you had together for a moment then your situation isnt much different from mine or other peoples. Tdubs sytem (in a nutshell) outlines what you need to do: take a break, and then ease back into your relationship. During your break Tdub suggests you should take care of yourself, figure out what went wrong in your relationship, break the pattern, and date other people.

Once the one month break is up and youve done all this then you start to contact your ex. Custody rights over your son does complicate things if thats an issue, so I suggest contacting Tdub for more information on that. I would be happy to describe the system in more detail if you need but you should really read his book to do it justice. Hope this helps!
GOOD LUCK!!

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Yknow if you could get me and my ex back together Id invite you to the wedding.
He acts so wierd and Im beside myself. Im so in love with him and I just dont know what to do anymore, Im clutching at straws watching dammn youtube videos.
Please give me some kinda guidence. I dont have money for an ebook

Ha ha thanks I appreciate it! Id love to help! Just let me know your situation and I’ll do my best!

Hi, my wife has filed for divorce and moved out. We have 2 kids together and so its hard not to have contact with her. we have been married for 12 years and i already did the begging pleading stuff. She wants the divorce done in a hurry. I want to know how to handle this situation becouse of the kids we have to talk etc. Any help would be great thanks.

what do you do if your ex fiance continues to text or instant message you out of no where?? do i reply back or do i ignore it??