Henry asked:
I am 20 years old, and am currently going out with a 21 soon to be 22 year old girl. I currently transferred from a community college in PA to a college in North Carolina to be closer to her. We went a full year, last year, as a long-distance couple. We decided to live together during the summer, and after a fairly rough summer, I am now in North Carolina. Throughout our relationship, I have always found it hard to be completely comfortable, and this is my first serious relationship. I now feel rather stuck being in NC but having feelings that I do not think I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. I miss my freedom, my friends, my family, and just doing whatever I want to when I want to. She, to me, is fairly high maintenance, and fairly controlling. I know deep down she is a great person with a great heart, but I feel like I am just wasting our time by staying together. Should I stop delaying the breakup and grow some balls, or should i let it ride out?
Is it bad to deep down feel that a big piece of you would be missing if you did dump her? I realize that I feel like that now though, and would probably get over it in time.
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I am 20 years old, and am currently going out with a 21 soon to be 22 year old girl. I currently transferred from a community college in PA to a college in North Carolina to be closer to her. We went a full year, last year, as a long-distance couple. We decided to live together during the summer, and after a fairly rough summer, I am now in North Carolina. Throughout our relationship, I have always found it hard to be completely comfortable, and this is my first serious relationship. I now feel rather stuck being in NC but having feelings that I do not think I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. I miss my freedom, my friends, my family, and just doing whatever I want to when I want to. She, to me, is fairly high maintenance, and fairly controlling. I know deep down she is a great person with a great heart, but I feel like I am just wasting our time by staying together. Should I stop delaying the breakup and grow some balls, or should i let it ride out?
Is it bad to deep down feel that a big piece of you would be missing if you did dump her? I realize that I feel like that now though, and would probably get over it in time.
Be happy again! click here to learn how to get your ex back in your life
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get your ex back in your life
YES
get your relationship back on track
Never, ever, EVER just ride it out unless your intentions are to be miserable. Hit the eject button as soon as you feel comfortable to. You obviously aren’t happy and want out of the relationship, and by staying in the relationship you not only aren’t being fair to yourself, but you also aren’t being fair to her either.
stop feeling sorry and get your relationship back the right way
you should definitely grow some balls and dump her. if you don’t, she will almost certainly dump you some day and then you’ll really have to dig deep to find them, buried up inside of your chest cavity somewhere hiding from the controlling bitch that you used to think you loved. It is good to be the dumper, gives you the most control in a bad situation. If you are feeling stuck, whipped, not free, etc. she is not the one for you. The right girl will make you feel more like yourself than you ever have been, not like you have to be somebody else.
get your ex back
Talk to her about all of this. Be calm about the whole deal, don’t turn it into a shouting match.
get your ex back in your life
If you die tomorrow ( God forbid) will you die happy knowing you were with her? Or happy knowing you had freedom to do whatever you needed to do…
Personally Im in so much love with my current boyfriend, I would die happy knowing i was able to be kissed by him…but if that isnt the case, then you need to let her know. If she loves you, she’ll understand and be happy with whatever your decision.
Good luck
get your ex back
YEAH GROW SOME BALLS LOL. If you don’t see a future with this woman …you are officially wasting ur time staying with her. Not only are you wasting your time ..you are wasting hers. She needs to find someone who will love her flaws and all. That’s not you and chances are deep down she knows that too. it’s best you both move on.
get your ex back in your life
i think you should ride it out until you are 100% sure you want to end it because if you do it without thinking long and hard you might regret it.