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Does she still have feelings for me?

Joel asked:


So my girlfriend and I broke up about 5 weeks ago. She sat me down and explained that she gets attached too easily and she didn’t want this since she is going off to college next year.
We stayed pretty close friends. We never got to serious during our relationship, so it wasn’t real awkward hanging out after the breakup.
While we were dating we would send each other “love quotations” over the phone every night. Obviously, that stopped after the breakup, but recently, every once in a while, she will send me another one.
I didn’t think too much of it until a few nights ago when she sent me an email telling me that she was never quite honest with me about her feelings for me and apologized.
Then last night we hung out with a large group of friends and met up at a movie. We drove separate, but on the way there she sent me a message: “please sit next to me in the movie”.
I did, but she didn’t make any attempt to hold my hand or anything, so now I am a little confused. I really am still in love with her, but because of that, I think I may be giving myself false hope here. Do you think she still has feelings for me?

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3 Responses to “Does she still have feelings for me?”

  1. asdfrd says:

    I think she’s confused, but I think you are too. Maybe she’s regretting the breakup. If you still care about her, then stay close and be there for her. Tell her how you feel. I don’t think going away to college is a good reason for a break up. I think that maybe she’s just afraid of being in love and doesn’t know what she’s missing. Good luck!

  2. Megan G says:

    get your boyfriend back

    Give it some time…but the way I take it she likes you as a friend at the time but it could become something more in the future.

  3. Jessi says:

    get your girlfriend back

    maybe. or maybe she misses how it was with you two together. i think that you should either;
    a. sit down with her and let her know how you feel. about her and whats going on.
    b. do the same. see how she reacts.
    that’s all i can say.i had the same problem w/ my ex bf. i would do little things we used to do when we were going out, then he sat down with me and told me how he felt, now we’re very close friends and he has a gf. just follow your gut. that’s always the best way to go.

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