if you have apologized and have tried to initiate conversations and she still isn’t talking to you or hasn’t forgiven you then that’s her loss not yours. you obviously tried your best to show her a good time and cheer her up. she should have been honest with you about her not having a good time and she wasn’t. and being mad at you for talking to you boyfriend is wrong if you weren’t on the phone for too long or too often. you shouldn’t have to sacrifice talking to your boyfriend just because she was depressed about her ex. you are the bigger person for saying sorry even though she is the one who is wrong about the situation. if she doesn’t come around and start talking to you again i would just say f*** it at least you tried to mend the friendship.

all you can do is try to patch it up and if you did what you said then you two not being friends is totally her fault!! i would try to sit her down alone so it is not as intimidating and tell her how you feel, if that does not work then you really can’t do anything about it b/c it sounds like she is the one to say screw this friendship. just try a couple more times and if that does not work leave her alone for a while. if it still bother’s you really bad then try calling her after you think she has gotten over her ex b/c that could be part of the problem.

maybe write her a letter & say what you’ve said here & at the end of it let her know the balls in her court & that there’s no hard feelings on your side of it & that if she wants to talk you’ll be there to listen (personally though it sounded like she just wanted all the attention weather it was positive or negative as something to cling to in her situation) hope this helps

Just hang out with other people, it sounds like she really doesn’t want to be friends. I don’t really think you did anything wrong, but she might see things differently. If you’ve known her for 3 years and she’s still being catty and talking about you behind your back instead of being straight up with you, she’s not a true friend.